Interviewing with a friend
It's more difficult to interview with a friend than you'd imagine. It's a little more relaxed than with a stranger, but that's not necessarily a good thing....for me anyway. I found myself joking and talking in a more friendly manner, and that means my answers were a little less well thought out than they might have been otherwise. For example, she asked if I was aggressive, and I was saying of course I'm not aggressive....but then I rethought it and said that I can be when I need to be (when a customer refuses to pay, etc). I don't think it matters since her mind was made up before the interview, but she needs to be able to tell HR (human resources) actual reasons I was chosen over the other candidates....more excel experience, more aggressive, etc. I don't think HR was going to accept that all my friends work down there was a good enough reason.
David is back to calling me every night. I think this is a good sign. He apologized for being too busy and broke to do anything right now. He just had to put 4 new tires and an alternator on the car. So, I think things are good with us for right now.
My eating is so bad it's off the charts. It's going to take a lot for me to start to do right on Sunday. I can tell it's going to be a constant struggle. When my dad first died, I did great and lost weight...but after about 2 weeks of that I haven't been able to keep it up for any length of time. It's time for me to stop using that as an excuse and get on with my life, I guess.
David is back to calling me every night. I think this is a good sign. He apologized for being too busy and broke to do anything right now. He just had to put 4 new tires and an alternator on the car. So, I think things are good with us for right now.
My eating is so bad it's off the charts. It's going to take a lot for me to start to do right on Sunday. I can tell it's going to be a constant struggle. When my dad first died, I did great and lost weight...but after about 2 weeks of that I haven't been able to keep it up for any length of time. It's time for me to stop using that as an excuse and get on with my life, I guess.



3 Comments:
At 6:23 PM,
Paul said…
Glad the interview is over. Of course you're aggressive!! ;-)
I forgot to mention that I like friend's in the right places with big mouths - I have a couple like that but no one in payroll - but it doesn't matter because manager's leave payroll data laying around on the printer and in excel spreadsheets on the common drive where anyone can access them.
Good luck on getting the right salary and flex time you want and the final formality of getting the job.
At 9:51 PM,
Jamie said…
Hi Valerie...Lots been going on since I was here last.
Congrats first on the possible new job/position. Congrats second on David :)! Good for you. I hope things work out.
This diet/life-style change (boy I'm full of /'s tonight aren't I?) is one tough sucker. If your 'on', its gotta be the foremost thought throughout your day. If you 'fall off', its heck trying to get back 'on' and if you do make it back 'on', you spend your whole time trying not to fall back 'off'.
I'm sending you lots of positive thoughts. You can do this.
At 1:55 PM,
Valerie said…
Paul-Thanks. As you may have read already, the formality happened today.
Jamie-Thanks for the positive thoughts. I need 'em right about now.
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